Building Relationships Online: Common Mistakes
Building relationships in real life is a hard work that demands patience and eagerness, so what can be said about relations via the Internet. There are common mistakes Western men usually make while communicating with Russian women. If you try to avoid them you are likely to have more chances for successful relationships with beautiful Russian girls.
First mistake is going to extremes like making very few or too much contacts. Both are wrong. When you start communicating with Russian women try not to write to too many women at once. In this case your letters are rather simple, standardized and do not make any impression about you as a real person. Russian women feel this and answer to such messages unwillingly or even ignore them. On the other hand, don't be too concentrated on communication with only one woman. It is great when you try to be faithful, but for online relationships it can work against you. Only a part of Western men happen to have successful relationships with the first Russian woman they meet. It may happen a girl will lose interest in you or she won't like you when you meet, or you will understand she is not the one you want to live with for the rest of your life. These are common situations and you must be ready for them.
The next thing to avoid is rushing things. When you find interest in a Russian girl and start communicating with her, you can make a mistake as the rest of the men usually make – they delete their profiles everywhere they were registered. If the girl supports your idea and communicates with you only it's great, but it may happen she is not ready to get rid of all those friends she has found over the Internet. In this case you can feel like a spare part.
Another huge mistake is concentrating on virtual relationships only. You can be a real pro in writing letters or chatting, still it won't be enough for building lasting close relations with a Russian girl. You should better call her or communicate via Skype for her to know there is a real person behind the letters. However, there is always a crunch moment in any relationships when a partner wants to know what will be next. To show a Russian woman you are serious about her, you should plan your visit to her country and meet her. Don't delay your visit for too long, as a woman can think you are not interested in her, and she can start looking for a more serious partner. Thus, your relationships can go down. So, let your relations develop in their natural way and plan your meeting.
The last but not the least mistake Western men usually make is micromanaging their Russian women. Constant suspicious questions concerning where a woman went and what she was doing can only destroy your relationships. Even in real life women don't like to be pressed or controlled, and they can't stand such an attitude via the Internet too. You can ask her about such things only if you have already met, and do it in a friendly way. Trust is a firm foundation for successful and intimate relationships.